Sometimes in life we get such a huge dose of energy, that we cannot contain it and we spread ourselves too thin.
In fact, The expression "we get" is out of place here, because it is we, who are making the effort to overcome resistance, to reveal ourselves in front of other people, to overcome the fears that have accompanied us all our lives.
After such a process, we become stronger, more aware of our needs. At the same time, however, some people who are accustomed to the submissive version of ourselves move away from us, because through our internal transformation we show them, that it is possible. Sometimes people who are around us, obviously not with us, will do everything to destroy our beautiful, wonderful energy, or at least divert it. And we listen to them: why do we need another workshop, another insight into yourself, healing unhealthy relationships of many years? It is better to "enjoy" what is, live life to the full, and the rest will work itself out.
We are all vulnerable to such influence and each of us decides, will you submit? or to the contrary, do something permanent and good for yourself?